Pain comes to us sometimes when we put all our trust, love even ourselves into someone and they, by reason of lack of value for it, dash it. There are many lessons life can teach us per time and here's some: - Refer to the above. - When you love, save some for yourself. - Don't ever let a person be the reason why you act in a certain way because when they are gone, you tend to act in the opposite way. - Be yourself, make your own choices. - - Change if you can, for reasons that'll never go away. - Don't forget that at some point in life, you have to stop looking up to others to lead you and you'll have to lead yourself. Enjoy the rest of the day.